Immigration: Is There Really a “Right Way” and a “Wrong Way”?

Immigration is one of those topics that can spark fierce debate and strong feelings. You often hear phrases like “the right way” versus “the wrong way” to immigrate—but what does that really mean? As a therapist, I want to explore this question with empathy and nuance because immigration isn’t just policy—it’s about people, families, and lives.

The “Right Way” Perspective

Many argue that following legal processes—such as visas, sponsorship, and asylum applications—is the “right way” to immigrate. These systems are designed to ensure order, safety, and fairness, helping countries manage resources and protect their citizens.

Following these processes can provide immigrants with legal protections, access to services, and opportunities to build a stable life. It also respects the laws and agreements that countries have in place.

The “Wrong Way” Perspective

On the flip side, the “wrong way” usually refers to crossing borders without documentation or overstaying visas. This is often framed as breaking the law, taking unfair advantage of systems, or threatening security.

These concerns aren’t without merit—countries do have the right to protect their borders and maintain public safety. But it’s important to remember that people who immigrate “illegally” often do so out of desperation: fleeing violence, poverty, or persecution.

The Human Side of Immigration

Behind every story—whether documented or undocumented—is a person seeking safety, opportunity, or a better life. Many immigrants work hard, contribute to their communities, and enrich the cultural fabric of their new homes.

It’s also crucial to understand the systemic barriers that make legal immigration difficult or inaccessible for many people. Long wait times, high fees, and complicated requirements can push people toward riskier options.

Finding Compassion and Balance

Instead of labeling immigration as simply “right” or “wrong,” we can aim for compassionate solutions that:

• Respect the rule of law and border security

• Provide humane and accessible pathways for people seeking refuge or opportunity

• Address root causes like violence and poverty in home countries

• Recognize immigrants’ contributions and dignity

Final Thoughts

Immigration isn’t black and white. It’s messy, complicated, and deeply human. As a therapist, I encourage us all to hold space for empathy and understanding—because every person’s story matters.